WorkWar Crisis

There comes a point in our life that even though we love our work very much we  will still be burned alive by those people who consider us as a threat. Here are some hacks that will smoothen our ways to the top.

5 TRICKS in HANDLING WORKWAR CRISIS

5. BUILDING YOUR ALLIANCE.

Form a strong and solid alliance before going to a fight. How to do this? Back-up yourself with influential people around your workplace. It doesn't need to be big, it has to be powerful. Make a strong bond with the heads by gaining their trust. Be approachable,lovely,sincere and all the adjectives that you can think of. In that sense, you will slowly but surely gain their trust.

4. FAKE IT. 

Faking your way to the top is not a difficult task to do. Most of the time,being fake are more acceptable  rather than being rude. Believe me,your enemies mastered it already. There are 2 types of fake face,the one who's sincere but is not and the one who's totally fucked up. So choose carefully what face you will portray. (PLEASE DON'T Use this technique to everyone)

3. WORK IT AND WORK IT HARD.

The only way to get those stupid people jealous is when your treating your work as if it is your entire life (Because it is). Win- win situation is the best spot to be when your at a workplace crisis. Show everyone that you deserve your spot more than anyone else by making most out of it everyday. Not being late, portray a positive aura, humility and most of all creative thinking. Don't let people bore, show them a bit of excitement and make sure that you are willing to be friends with them sincerely. (This phase, avoid being fake. Be true to yourself)

2. BE HUMBLE.

Most of the time, the only way to achieve serenity is just being humble. No one wants to have an arguments and a negative working environment. Learn to reflect and be humble enough to take your lapses and flaws. We all commit mistakes that sometimes or most of the time we are not aware of. Being humble doesn't mean defeat, it's just being courageous.

1. POSITIVITY.

Be positive even though people shows a grimace face or a just being naturally wacky. Lightening the mood of an individual can mean a lot. Crack days happen and it's not just a day or two. Provide positive approach and let your enemies be stressed out on what you have become. Humble, sincere and free.

Hope this tricks work, (if it doesn't) Feel free to stick on rule number 5. BUILD A POWERFUL ALLIANCE!

7 Reasons why SCOLDING is NOT an OPTION

7 Reasons why Scolding is NOT an Option

When I decided to move here in Thailand and look for a decent job, I tried my best to penetrate  and be part of fashion industry, marketing or telecommunication but seems that luck are not favoring my side. 

Out of the blue, a friend ask me if I could teach children and of course I answered yes. In desperation of finding a job, I did not even think on what I was about to enter.

The very first day was crucial, I don’t know where to begin or what to start. The environment was so noisy, the students were so naughty and the weather was totally devastating. In other words, it’s like hell. I lost my temper and started yelling, scolding and even wagging my finger, but either of those cannot stop them from bugging my patience.

Teachers can easily drop their temper, and when you lose it you have no choice but to brag yourself and start your thing. At the end of the day, you were defeated by your own way coz' it's not effective at all.

Here are the reasons why scolding and yelling was never an option.

1. It will not CHANGE their behavior

The only time students changes their behavior is always unpredictable. But this can be easily manipulated with a teacher that they love/like and trust. Thus, Scolding and yelling can cause misbehavior or lose of interest.

2 Temporary Improvement

Scolding or yelling your students can be effective but in a short period of time. They will act the way what you want them to behave but eventually they will go back on their unfinished business. The only reason why it is working is because teachers has the authority and power to scold on a student.

3. Loses your Influence

Scolding and yelling can lose your influence as a teacher. The students will eventually dislike and distrust you. They will more often have the interest to disturb your class or annoy you more. Let’s be honest, you need to form your army, and when one soldier is a pain in the neck it will make your life miserable.

  

4. Totally Stressful

Scolding and Yelling is a sure sign that you let miserable behavior penetrate your nerves. It will leave you with frustration and anxiety and it is totally bad for your health. Thus, it will make you an ineffective teacher.

5. You’ll never  defend yourself

When you are scolding or yelling your student and you have a complaint from a parent, you will surely have difficulty on defending yourself. You just cannot say that you lost your temper, it would not be acceptable. Let’s face it, no level of disrespect can give you an authority to yell at your students.

6. Losing your Gracefulness

I’m telling you, losing your temper can be very ugly (literally). Try to take a video of yourself at your highest peak and surely you will see all the devil within you. It’s not pretty at all. Your prepared morning aura will vanish and it’s hard to regain it.

7. You don’t want to be a bad example

Your students sees you as a role model and having a not so cool attitude towards them can be crucial. They will see it as if it is right at all.

So what will you do?

Being a teacher is  really a tough and a rough job, It can be a pain in the neck at some point. It will totally test your patience, but no matter how frustrated you are with your students, scolding and yelling will never be an option.

Instead of being “that” teacher, that they totally don’t want to see, you can be the teacher that they would love to be with every day. Try to be close with your students, hear their thoughts and ideas and try to be one of them. Surely you will find a clues on how to get their attention without tuning your voice.

Make some interesting activities that everyone will surely enjoy. Be cool and be fierce. 

Men's Secret for a Healthy Radiant Skin

Men needs to have secrets too, thus, we all deserve to be at the same spotlight as the girls do. So here are some tips on how to get those glowing and luminous skin without emptying your pockets. 

Yes, season’s primer is not all about powdered Chocó, mocha or vanilla; it is all about glowing and radiant skin no matter what color your made of. So start your engine and enjoy the ride to luminosity.

These are some simple steps on how to make your skin glow and be notice.

1. The epic use of Sunscreen. Yes, some of us hate sunscreen because of its fluidity and sticky texture. But we must admit it, prevention is totally better than cure. Putting sunscreen is the best way to prevent skin breakdown and damage. If your worried and have no idea on what type of suncreeen you will use for your delicate skin, try to check  My Sunny Shield and be worry-less.

2. Always wash your face before and after taking a nap or rest. This will wash off bacteria and dust that would trigger to skin damage. This would cause pimples, blackhead and zits which are all very disgusting. Use facial soaps that would totally match your skin. I highly recommend gentle soaps with low pH levels.

3. Applying Moisturizer. The use of moisturizer helps the skin to relax and keep it moisten. In this way, it will prevent dryness. If you have an oily skin and afraid to use moisturizer dont worry much, there's a lot of non-greasy moisturizer out in the market nowadays. 

4. Exfoliate. By exfoliation, you are removing dead skin cells in your body and leaving it smooth and radiant. Regarding what season, your skin should always be ready. Everyone wants to have a soft and have luminous skin that can go along with every season. Try to exfoliate from head to toe and this will give you a shiny results.

5. Balance Diet. Having a proper digestion and lifestyle contributes a large amount in having a healthy and glowing skin. Lessen the amount of sugar and add more on fruits and vegetables. Fruits and vegetables have may important nutrients, fiber, petrochemicals and of course antioxidants which makes them the leader on promoting a radiant skin.

6. Exercise. Exercise is very essential to make your skin tighter and bold. If you thnk that you are so busy that you cannot even spend a simple 20's for a sit-ups or cannot atleast achieve your goal from a mobile health tracking app, well, i do suggest that you should get a life now. Its free.

6. Water. We all know that water is essential for life but i really don't get the point that most people doesn't want to drink water or near enough. Water is the very important to activate cells of the body and this includes your skin. You will notice that when drinking enough water, your skin will be more elastic, more vibrant and not just your skin but the totality of your body.

You'll never be less than a man if you have those appealing aura.

Jeff